Is Tinder a waste of time? Johnny Berba gives his honest opinion on online dating in 2021.
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At the moment a lot of people are struggling to find ways to date one another because of the pandemic. Online Dating is probably the best way to date at the moment, whilst we are still in lockdown. In my opinion, once the lockdown is over! it would be best to meet people in real life. However, it’s entirely up to you as to which dating platform you choose to do 🙂
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TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
ONLINE DATING
MEETING WOMEN IN REAL LIFE
IS TINDER A WASTE OF TIME?
WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO CONFIDENCE
ONLINE DATING IN 2021
DATING DURING LOCKDOWN
SOCIAL SKILLS
LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS
MATCH.COM
MEETING WOMEN THROUGH YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE
NIGHTCLUBS
MARRIAGE
FACING YOUR SOCIAL FEARS
SOCIAL ANXIETY
DIFFERENT PLACES TO MEET PEOPLE
THE PROS AND CONS OF DOING ONLINE DATING
Become Fearless
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Yes Johnny, there is too much game playing online, i get so sad because i see these online dating gurus online telling you that you have be funny and have a verbal banter with these girls, and im just like i could….thats IF I CAN GET THEM TO RESPOND AFTER THE 1ST OR 2ND MESSAGE. Its like the disappear out of thin air. but in real life, i blow most people out of the water with my energy and my genuine energy for wanting to know more about a person, which is attractive and thats why women who have met me have told me that "there is something about you that for some reason makes me feel comfortable"…but online im seen as this "weird guy, leave me alone"…because once i send a message…which im not a bad looking man, women straight up ignore me right after that.
Im thinking about just quitting all of these dating sites because im starting to lose that confidence i had in women which i gained through cold approaching.
I think there's a lot to be said for on-line dating sites 🙂 It can be done at a time that suits, you also get to know a bit about someone before taking the plunge in messaging them. I think if people are direct in what they are looking for, they might not get a quantity of messages back, but they are more likely to get the kind of quality messages they are looking for. If you are different to the average guy using the dating site(s), in my opinion it needs communicating. You might not appeal to the many, but you will appeal to those quality connections, and surely it's always quality over quantity… Just don't let on-line dating rule your life, sure give it time, but make sure you have quality time spent on other interests too. Regarding cold approaches, yes it does take courage, it will also have that surprise factor, but if someone is rushing to be somewhere, or not in the mood to be approached, those connections can have a negative effect on both parties day… There is also that small posibility that the person you have approached isn't having the best of times using dating sites etc, and will jump at a opportunity presented before them… For those not wanting to use on-line dating, I can't help but think gradual charming and showing a interest in someone is the best way forward, but chance encounters also work for some 🙂 What does everybody else think 🙂
The first time I tried online dating, I was stoked. "Man,' I thought, "there's all of these attractive women and so much opportunity on here." Then I started trying to message girls. And I got NO response. 90% of the girls would just ignore me. I would say I got one response for every 30 messages I sent. I became depressed and full of hopelessness. "Am I that unattractive?" I thought to myself. Then I did some research online and found that most guys were having the same experience. Even girls that are remotely attractive are getting dozens of messages from guys on a daily basis. So if given a choice between 50 guys that messaged you, whom you've never met in person before, you're probably going to pick the most attractive looking guy, if you're a girl. So that basically means that girls are only responding to the top 5% best looking guys. The other 95% are ignored.
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I think it depends on the guy. Some men do well on tinder but for me personally its a joke!
You can still meet people with face covering. If online dating doesn't work for people them doing now will be frustrating alot of women will use the excuse its a pandemic i cant meet up so still games
I barely use tinder and hinge these days as I never had any success with any of them it’s mainly due to all the girls I’ve messaged on them are all time wasters and never respond to any of your messages and if I do if I’m very lucky hey never talk to you or do very little interaction, stop talking to me if I go to arrange to meet up with them. Deleted POF few years ago as same reasons as above. Tinder still there just barely but with what’s going on with the current situation there hardly anywhere to go and do and find hard to socialise and meet people
Good to see you still making videos Johnny. You've been in the game years!
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Tinder has a low ROI for men. Waste of time and requires me to not be myself as I hate taking selfies especially with my mates. Calibrated and honest cold approach has a better ROI and will get women more interested in you as a person.